Perhaps you have judged electric cars from what you have heard, and it seems some rather old articles at that. Now even die hard petrol heads will admit that the instant torque of an electric car gives an experience that can not be matched in a gasoline vehicle. That EV acceleration is not "silly."
There are people who claim that the EV is not "helpful" to the environment. I will not immediately dispute it. They do not somehow improve the environment. In this sense they do not make it "better." Rather, when compared to the alternative of a car that pollutes at the tailpipe, at the refinery, in its use of electricity and through its oil and filter changes you can come to see that they do make the environment "less worse" than a petrol vehicle. That makes them a better choice than the ICE vehicle and not at all "silly."
Some complain about potential disposal of EV batteries. Presently 97% of automotive batteries are recycled. We can expect at least the same for EV batteries. But petrol automobiles do, in fact, have another dirty little secret. The EPA reports that over 185 million gallons of drain oil is improperly disposed of into the US environment EACH YEAR. This is approximately equal to BP oil spill (yes... each year!) The EV does not require oil and filter changes and is virtually maintenance free. There is nothing about electric cars that will ever be as bad as the gasoline car.
If you can tear yourself away from the mindless talking points of EV detractors you will come to understand that electricity can be produced in many ways while the petrol engine essentially is designed to run only on petrol. Yes, slightly less than 40% of grid electricity in the US is made from Coal, but it is also true that this is the most "rapidly shrinking" way to make electricity. Off the top of my head I can tell you of perhaps 15 other ways to make electricity. Renewable and non polluting methods include solar panels, solar thermal generation, geothermal, hydroelectric, wind generation and to some nuclear energy.
But whatever kind of electricity is used for the EV is also being used for the gasoline car. So also is it then a "coal car" plus a gasoline polluting car as every gallon of gasoline requires about 4.5 plus KWh of electricity for the refinery. That electricity could run an EV but the petrol car uses that to give us even more pollution. (see the source below) That is not at all "silly."
People use the term "efficiency" for many things. The usual definition is the amount of useful work obtained over the total energy used. Battery to wheels efficiency of some electric cars are over 90% while typical tank to wheels efficiency of an ICE vehicle is around 15%. But you seem to be referring to "efficient use of your time." What you say might be true if I were to pull up a chair and watch my EV charge for the 20 minutes it took for an 80% charge. But in every state where pumping your own gas is allowed you are required by law to keep your hand on the gas nozzle. That fill up may take 10 minutes or more. When I compare that to 2 seconds to plug in the EV and 2 seconds to unplug it. Fueling the EV is a far more efficient use of my attention regardless of the total time it takes to recharge the vehicle. There are some people who actually hate going to a gas station. So fueling an EV is not "silly."
There is probably more that could be done to make ICE vehicles more efficient. But history has shown that US automakers are unwilling to make changes for efficiency or safety unless forced into it by government regulations. When Tesla motors came out with their Roadster it shook the industry to its foundations. GM which had been making diesel/electric hybrid locomotives for 75 years suddenly decided to come out with the "new" technology of the Volt hybrid. Nissan came out with the Leaf and several other manufacturers tested the waters with some leased models. Seeing the huge increase in fuel efficiency that electric drive allows the US Government was forced to raise EPA fuel efficiency standards. Now with over 100,000 plug-n cars on the roadways manufacturers are being forced to recognize that electric vehicles in some form are the automotive future. They don't think it is "silly" and neither should you.